Tattoo me

Whilst I understand fully why people don’t like tattoos, I personally love them. Yes there are some awful ones out there however many are works of art and those that dispense them are artists.

For me they represent something I love, a time or a place that brings great comfort or memories flooding back to me, representing something deeply personal and special that has featured prominently in my life.

Alfs paw print from the vet

And this one is for my best mate, Alf who sadly left us on the 16th August this year.

Before and during the inking

When Alf passed away the first thing the vet did was take a paw print off of him that was put into a card, I said to my wife at this point that I’d have a word with my tattooist, Pablo, and see if he could do something with it. Today I have met with Pablo and the tattoo is being done.

Cling filmed for a couple of hours prior to washing

Alf was known throughout the family as “Alfie Moon” and I asked for this to be incorporated into the finished tattoo, and after about an hour the job is done and though a bit sore im really pleased with the outcome.

It won’t be in its full glory until the healing has finished in a week or two, for now it’s all about keeping it clean and protected and moisturised until that time.

Finished just needs to heal

It’s my way of remembering a faithful friend and companion that I now know will be forever with me, in my memory and now etched on to me. When people ask I can tell them the many stories of “Alfie Moon” – A very good boy.

Tattoos, taboo in many peoples eyes, but try to see the world through the eyes of others, it is an art form and art is a form of expression. If it helps, it cannot be a bad thing. And in my case my tattoos tell my life story and those special people, animals and places that have touched it.

I’m a walking art gallery, to some.

But probably not to others, the choice is yours, and yours alone.

Over familiarity

What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

There are a few traits in people that get me thinking and questioning them but I guess the one that really does it for me is over familiarity.

People work hard to develop relationships, and I like to think I’m one of those people that is quite a good judge of character when it comes to meeting people. I personally have a trait that I know others will not like and that is that I am quick to judge people. I think it’s a defensive mechanism that has stood me in good stead, in my personal opinion. To be honest I think it ties in perfectly with what I have stated as being the trait that raises the red flag with me.

I find it a lot at work, new managers and fellow staff who seem to want to hop that period of building work relationships and go straight to the “I know more than you” category. Especially those who know very little and have been sitting in a classroom for the last four years sucking money out of the bank of mum and dad.

These actions normally activate my “judgement“ trait pretty quickly and all interest drains from me from that moment on.

In life, building bridges and foundations is a major part of moving around work society. You wouldn’t build a premises without foundations so why would you attempt to do the same with relationships?

You are setting yourself up to fail.

Have a great day.

Not going to happen…is it?

Describe your ideal week.

No work

Plenty of sleep

Eat well

Drink plenty of water

No stress

No worries

No aggro

Find a money tree

Discover the meaning of life

Find the book that explains how to keep women happy 😊

It’s not going to happen is it? Oh well a healthy dose of the normal then.

Peace to you all.

Para Atheletes

Name the professional athletes you respect the most and why.

To be honest all athletes deserve respect but in my eyes the Para Athletes are the ones that deserve it the most. To already be challenged with life changing issues whatever they may be, to then push yourself to exceed in an activity that even the most physically active individual would find extremely challenging shows the sheer bravery, commitment and pure guts that separates them from everyone else.

We should look up to them as shining examples of how to overcome adversity and all the challenges life throws at you, and not only to succeed but exceed in everything they do.

Modern day superheroes and shining examples of everything good about human spirit.

Not empowered by money or fame, just pure mental strength and proving the point that everything is possible if you commit to it.

Love them all.

(Picture: Coventry Observer)

Black dog is in the house

How do you relax?

Something I just can’t do at the moment. The classic big black dog has entered the house and relaxation is a state of mind that I can’t find at present. Each day is progressively getting tougher and I do believe I’m going beyond a state that I am comfortable with. The hole is getting tougher to claw my way out of.

I know what’s happening and I’m fighting it.

I’m hoping the ability to relax returns soon.

The fight is real.

Yes

If you had to give up one word that you use regularly, what would it be?

The word yes. I need to replace it more with it’s polar opposite “No”

In my lifetime ambition to please everyone I have realised probably too late in life that at times you just have to say no. People are so greedy, selfish and totally engrossed in their own ambitious fight for wealth and recognition that everyone else gets trodden on and abused.

I’ve realised I fall in to that category and I am often told to stop saying yes to everyone.

It stops now. I’ve had enough and I’m not being used anymore.

I’m going to find it hard but from now on, No will become a more frequently used word in my vocabulary.

Sorry.

Just shut up

Are you holding a grudge? About?

I’m reading all the replies “No I don’t hold grudges” and “ I won’t allow that to happen” dear people, I state that thou dust talk a load of old bollocks.

It’s a natural occurrence in daily life, you can’t judge a person as bitter and twisted if they hold a grudge and you are a liar if you can come on here and say you haven’t held a grudge in your life. Just shut up and give your head a wobble and stop pretending that you are holier than thou.

Bloody annoys me how people are so damned judgemental of others on this platform.

See I’m holding a grudge against you plums who think you are so bloody perfect.

Shut up

Open your eyes.

Uranus

Share a story about the furthest you’ve ever traveled from home.

Yep

Thought that would get attention.

Chill out, it’s a joke 🤦‍♂️

Peaceful and fresh air

What does your ideal home look like?

We’re looking at making our final move within the next 18 months. We’ve purchased new in the past and though the house was lovely we weren’t really happy as it was so “perfect” and needed nothing doing to it. We wanted a project, and 8 years later we have a nice house, though it’s not ideal and has been a drain on us both physically and financially.

We’re now exploring the new route again, this time more thought is going into it, we’re looking to move probably only a few miles from where we are as we have family here and we like the general area and I happen to work nearby and don’t want to increase my commute too much if I can help it.

Tabs protecting the garden

Believe it or not, one major issue for not moving just yet is the feral cat we have in our garden, Tabs. When we purchased this house all those years ago, one feature in all the exterior pictures of the sale brochure was this cat posing in all the garden shots. That was “Tabs”. She wasn’t owned by anyone, and all the neighbours had a hand in feeding her, as the neighbours have moved on that has become our responsibility, and she is fed regularly by us in exchange for her living in and protecting our garden. And boy is she good at that. She is getting old now, dosen’t leave the garden much and is very much into her senior years. We don’t want to put her through getting a new set of “Carers” and leaving her to potentially getting neglected by new owners, so we have committed to care for her and see out her final days being looked after by us. Should she then pass away we will be here, we will attend to her and see she is looked after. Only then will we continue our search for an “ideal home”

Tabs

Anyway, what is our ideal hone? To be totally honest we’re not looking for something outrageously expensive and inappropriate for just two people, we don’t want a ten bed mansion we simply want a nicely built and practical house. Three beds would be fine, one of those rooms to become a hobby / office type space. A small to medium garden that is currently a blank canvas for me to develop into a seasoned garden. The garden I have at the moment has taken six years to start reaching a maturity where it is kind of looking after itself and it is beautiful, I would like to do that again. We currently live on a main thoroughfare and the dust and pollution that creates would certainly not be missed. Yes a quieter area, more rural would be nice, and as this is a major route for emergency service vehicles, somewhere quieter without 24hr a day wailing sirens would be appreciated.

Quieter, peaceful, new, nothing more to be done apart from basic maintenance maybe with a garage would suit us down to the ground. The house we currently have I’m sure would be a good project for someone who has the time and money, but it’s not for us. We took the challenge on, and we learned a lesson. Been there, done it and got the tee shirt as they say.

The ideal home for us involves a simpler and more relaxed life. I think we deserve that and to be honest we are fortunate to be in a position to be able to do it. We’ve worked our collective butts off for it and we deserve nothing less.

But first off Tabs is our concern. There’s no rush.

It’s her house and garden as well as ours.

Achieving against the odds

What brings a tear of joy to your eye?

Someone who has been written off for not achieving when the rest of the world has cast them aside. A work colleague of mine was doomed to fail from the moment he joined us, a lovely guy, just needed a bit of mentoring, he got that and despite the naysayers casting him aside he has flourished in the role. And I am so proud of him.

Sometimes the downtrodden can flourish. People just need to be given a chance. Success is not just a possession for the gifted few.

It’s for everyone.

Chance is a gamblers game. Opportunity is for all. Success is for everyone.

Never look down on someone. You may well have to pass them when you come down off of your high horse.